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You can’t out-help someone’s attachment to their problem
Because the problem isn’t just a problem to them. It’s doing a job for them that your solution can’t replace. Identity: If I let go of this, who am I without it? Some people have carried something so long it’s become part of their story. Healing would mean rewriting the story. Payoff: Every stuck problem…
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It’s not love we’re afraid of; it’s the possibility of re-experiencing the old pain again.
It’s not love we’re afraid of; it’s the possibility of re-experiencing the old pain again. I know that fear all too well. Sometimes the wounds from past heartbreaks cling tighter than we expect, making us hesitant to open our hearts again. But the truth is, avoiding love because of fear only keeps us stuck, missing…
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Replying to MzRedd83Man said this was my fear, gave a mfer my heart and they broke me
Most people we meet end up being lessons, even when they break us. But don’t let that stop you from loving again. The love you gave ain’t wasted—trust me, it’s gonna come back to you tenfold. You gotta stay open, keep trying, and never let bitterness take over. Your heart’s worth it. Heartbreak #StayStrong #KeepGoing…